EP158 S05 Unpacking the 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
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This is perhaps my all-time favorite book. In it, Robert Greene explains that power is a fundamental part of our societies and lives. He distills 3,000 years of history into 48 laws designed to help us masterfully navigate politics and power games, and protect us from others using them against us.
People who claim to reject power due to moral values are either naive or skilled manipulators. Greene encourages us to view power dynamics as a game. We can use this book to learn about power in general, or we can study its principles deeply to gain a true understanding of people and the world around us.
Law 1: Never Outshine the Master
Avoid showing off your talents to impress your superiors. If they feel threatened, they might replace you, no matter how well you’re doing. Instead, make them feel smart and important. Ask for their advice and give them credit for your ideas. Let them take the spotlight.
Law 2: Don’t Overthrust Friends, Use Your Enemies
Don’t hire friends just because you know them. Friends can get jealous and betray you, and it’s harder to be professional with them. Hire people based on their skills and what you need. Surprisingly, you can use your enemies to get others to support you. If you win over a former enemy, they might be more loyal than a friend.
Law 3: Conceal Your Intentions
Many people can’t control what they say or think honesty is always the best. It’s often better to keep your goals secret until you’re ready to act. You can distract people by pretending to support something you don’t really like or by sharing unimportant information. This way, people will think you’re honest and more likely to believe your lies when you need to.
Law 4: Always Say Less Than Necessary
The more you talk, the more likely you are to say something silly. Powerful people often say little, which makes them seem impressive and scary. When people can’t guess what you’re thinking, they pay attention to everything you say. Silence can also make others feel defensive and reveal information to you.
Law 5: Guard Your Reputation
Your reputation is like your business card; it’s the foundation of your power. If you’re known for being honest, you can deceive people more easily. If you’re known for being ruthless, people will fear you. To improve your status, spend time with people who have the image you want. You can also hurt your enemies by attacking their reputation and letting other people judge them.
Law 6: Court Attention at All Costs
Everything is judged by how it looks. If people don’t notice you, you’re not important. Get attention by being more interesting, colorful, or mysterious than others. Even bad publicity can be good, as it keeps you in the spotlight. Create a sense of mystery to intrigue people and make them think you’re more powerful. Once you’re famous, you must keep changing and surprising people to stay interesting.
Law 7: Get Others to Do the Work, but Take the Credit
Don’t let others take advantage of your hard work or steal your ideas. Instead, use other people’s wisdom, knowledge, and effort to save time and energy while building your power. You can also build on what other people have already done, just like Shakespeare used old stories and characters in his plays.
Law 8: Make People Come to You
Stay in control by making your enemies react to you on your terms and forcing them to change their plans. Control your emotions while you trick your enemies with good offers or make them angry, then attack when it’s right for you. For negotiations, always meet people on your own territory.
Law 9: Win Through Actions, Not Arguments
You can never truly win with words alone. Any victory will be short-lived, and people will still be angry. Instead, show people your ideas are right with your actions. This way, you prove your point without making anyone mad.
Law 10: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky
Misery and bad luck can spread. It’s okay to help people who are having a hard time through no fault of their own, but stay away from people who cause their own problems. Spend time with positive, successful people instead.
Law 11: Make Yourself Indispensable
Make others depend on you for their success, money, or happiness. The more people need you, the more powerful and free you are. Don’t teach people too much so they don’t need you anymore. You can become important by having special skills or by becoming so close to people that they can’t leave you.
Law 12: Disarm People with Strategic Honesty and Generosity
No matter how tough or cynical someone is, you can surprise them with kindness, generosity, or honesty at the right time. Use honesty carefully to make people trust you less, then trick them when it’s the right time. You can also gain trust by doing selfless things, like giving a gift or doing something nice. But these actions must seem real to work.
Law 13: Appeal to Self-Interest for Help
When you need help or want to make an alliance, focus on what the other person wants, not on big ideas. Use their desire to feel important or be praised for their kindness. Don’t rely on people’s pity or thankfulness, even if you’ve helped them before. People don’t like being reminded of debts or favors.
Law 14: Gather Intelligence
To know what your rivals are planning, you must learn their secrets and hidden intentions. You can do this by using spies or by gathering information yourself. At parties, ask indirect or casual questions while pretending to share your own thoughts, encouraging them to talk. Set small traps to reveal their weaknesses and plans.
Law 15: Crush Your Enemy Completely
As you become more powerful, you will make enemies. Any strong enemy must be completely destroyed, both physically and mentally, so they can’t fight back. Mercy is dangerous; don’t stop halfway when dealing with threats.
Law 16: Raise Your Value Through Absence and Scarcity
If you’re always available, people might start to take you for granted. Once you’ve established your presence and power, learn to step away temporarily so people will miss you and value you more when you return. This works best if you already have a good reputation. Appear and disappear to stay important.
Law 17: Keep Others in Suspense with Unpredictability
People don’t like uncertainty. By being unpredictable, you keep others confused as they try to guess what you’re going to do next. This can create suspense and even fear if you take it too far. On the other hand, being predictable can make people too comfortable, making them easier to defeat when you attack.
Law 18: Don’t Isolate Yourself Behind a Fortress
In times of trouble or danger, it’s tempting to hide away for protection. However, isolation is risky; it cuts you off from important information and makes you an easy target. Instead, blend in with the crowd, make alliances, and stay alert.
Law 19: Know Who We’re Dealing With
To gain and keep power, it’s important to understand people correctly. Know who you’re working with so you can work with the right people and avoid making the wrong people angry. Get real information about others instead of guessing or relying on your gut.
Law 20: Maintain Independence
Show just enough interest for others to think you might support them, but don’t commit to anyone or anything except your own goals. This keeps you neutral and stops you from getting involved in small fights. By staying independent, you can use people against each other or become a powerful mediator.
Law 21: Make Your Victims Feel Smarter Than You
People love to feel smart. If you seem less capable or sophisticated than the people around you, they won’t suspect that you might outsmart them. On the other hand, if you want others to trust and follow you, you should show intelligence and authority in a subtle way.
Law 22: Use Surrender as a Tactic
If you’re clearly losing, there’s no point in fighting directly. Pretend to give up and make your enemy think they’ve won, tricking them into feeling too confident. Meanwhile, regroup and prepare to fight back when the time is right.
Law 23: Focus Our Forces
Don’t spread your resources too thin by fighting many battles at once. Focus your energy like a sharp arrow for the most impact. Similarly, it’s better to find one strong supporter with a lot of influence rather than relying on many smaller backers.
Law 24: Be a Masterful Courtier
A successful courtier knows how to navigate the complicated power dynamics of a court. Be modest, not flashy. Get noticed without being too bold. Change your approach for each person, use your influence subtly, and flatter people wisely. Be observant, control your emotions, and always be a source of good news.
Law 25: Create Our Own Identity
Break free from the roles and expectations society puts on you. Create your own identity to suit different situations, much like changing clothes. Keep your identity interesting by including elements of drama, such as surprise, suspense, and symbolism. This will help you capture attention and present yourself as larger than life.
Law 26: Keep Our Hands Clean
Avoid getting your hands dirty by using a scapegoat to blame for mistakes. Give the unpleasant tasks, such as delivering bad news or taking harsh actions, to others so you are only associated with positive outcomes. Let others handle the unpleasant work while you maintain a spotless reputation.
Law 27: Create a Cult-Like Following
Humans have a natural need to believe in something bigger than themselves. If you give them the right focus, they will follow you with devotion. To create a cult-like following, use vague but promising words that allow people to dream and see what they want to see. Focus on feelings and visuals, create rituals, and ask for sacrifices. Introduce an outside enemy to unite people around you, using the classic “us vs. them” strategy.
Law 28: Act with Boldness
When you act boldly, people are more likely to believe in you and overcome their own doubts. If you’re uncertain, hesitate, or act timidly, others will sense your doubt and lose confidence. Both boldness and timidity can be learned. Plan ahead so you can take decisive action at the right time.
Law 29: Plan All the Way to the End
Consider all possible outcomes and obstacles when you make plans. This way, you’ll be prepared for unexpected challenges and know when to stop or change course. Having clarity and confidence helps you adapt to changing circumstances, but don’t overplan to the point where you become paralyzed by details.
Law 30: Make Your Achievements Seem Effortless
Practice and improve your skills behind the scenes so when you show your work publicly, it looks easy. Never reveal the hard work or tricks behind your success; this will make your mastery seem less impressive and allow others to copy you. It’s okay to show some of your techniques, but always keep the illusion of superiority.
Law 31: Control the Options
The best way to manipulate people is to make them feel like they are in control by giving them a limited range of choices. In reality, you control the situation and make sure that whatever option they choose works in your favor. Present your preferred option as the most attractive or force them to choose between two bad alternatives.
Law 32: Play to People’s Fantasies
People often prefer to believe in fantasies, like sudden success or a windfall, rather than face the harsh realities of hard work and gradual progress. An effective fantasy should be like a mirage, tempting enough to captivate but vague enough to keep them striving. This way, they continue to desire and pursue what seems just out of reach.
Law 33: Find Your Opponent’s Weak Spot
To break through someone’s defenses, identify their fatal weakness—usually an insecurity, uncontrollable need, or secret desire. Pay attention to subtle cues that trigger emotional reactions, and probe gently to uncover the source of their vulnerabilities. Once identified, use this knowledge to your advantage.
Law 34: Act the Way You Want to Be Treated
The way we carry ourselves shapes how others perceive us. Act with confidence and self-assurance, like a king, and people will treat us accordingly. Make bold demands without wavering, approach superiors with dignity, and give gifts as if you are equals. Your behavior sets the standard for how others will respond.
Law 35: Master the Art of Timing
Learn to wait until the time is right before acting. Strike decisively when the moment comes, bringing things to a swift and strategic conclusion. To master timing, think long-term and observe the bigger picture. Use deadlines to make others wait or rush, and time your actions to your advantage.
Law 36: Ignore What You Can’t Have
When we focus on something unattainable, we give it power over us. Instead of obsessing over what we can’t have, show disinterest or even contempt. This will keep us in control and prevent weakness. If someone beneath us attacks, ignore them. Showing that we’re unaffected demonstrates strength and superiority.
Law 37: Dazzle People with Spectacle
People are easily captivated by striking visuals and powerful symbols. Use them to amplify your presence and appear larger than life. By overwhelming people with appearances, we can distract them from our real intentions. Link ourselves to famous figures or significant events to boost our aura of power.
Law 38: Hide Your Unconventional Thinking
If your ideas or beliefs are unconventional, don’t flaunt them openly, especially in a conservative or rigid environment. Instead, pretend to blend in with others. Share your radical ideas only with trusted allies. You can also subtly introduce these ideas in indirect ways, such as by pretending to argue against them while actually promoting them.
Law 39: Stir Up Waters to Catch Fish
If we lose our temper or self-control, we risk losing the respect and confidence of our followers. However, if we can make our enemies angry while we remain calm, we gain a significant advantage. Play on our opponent’s pride, vanity, or emotions like love and hate to throw them off balance. When they act recklessly, we’ll have the opportunity to defeat them.
Law 40: Beware of the Free Lunch
Be cautious of anything offered for free or at a suspiciously low price. It often comes with hidden costs, such as obligations or guilt, which can lead to problems later. If something is truly valuable, pay for it to avoid these traps. Build a reputation for being generous, but use gifts strategically to increase your influence and power.
Law 41: Don’t Get Lost in a Great Man’s Shadow
When we follow in the footsteps of a great leader, we will need to achieve even more to stand out. The best way to avoid being overshadowed is to carve out our own path. Break from the past, emphasize the differences in the present, and create our own style, symbols, and rituals to establish ourselves.
Law 42: Strike the Shepherd to Scatter the Sheep
Trouble within a group often stems from one person who stirs up dissent or anxiety. To stop this behavior, target the source. Removing this individual will prevent their toxic influence from spreading. Isolating them also weakens their position, making them more vulnerable.
Law 43: Win Hearts and Minds
A person who is forced to do something will eventually push back. To gain lasting power and loyalty, we need to make others want to follow our lead. Take time to understand their emotional makeup and psychological weaknesses. Play on their key emotions, such as love, hate, or jealousy, and show them how our ideas serve their self-interest.
Law 44: Unbalance and Confuse with the Mirror Effect
Mirrors reflect reality, and we can use this tactic to throw our enemy off balance in several ways. First, imitate their actions while secretly setting traps. This will unsettle them and hide our true intentions. Second, reflect their desires or values back to them to gain their trust. Third, give them a taste of their own medicine. Lastly, create an illusion that they will mistake for the real thing, making them easier to manipulate.
Law 45: Advocate Change, but Don’t Push for Drastic Reforms
People resist change, even when they recognize its necessity. Don’t push for radical reforms, as this could lead to backlash. If we’re new to a position or community, start by showing respect for existing traditions, then introduce changes gradually. Link new ideas to values people already accept to make the transition smoother.
Law 46: Don’t Seem Too Perfect
When we appear to be better than others or too perfect, people will envy us and may silently resent us. Avoid flaunting our wealth, power, or superior qualities. Instead, show small, harmless flaws or weaknesses to make ourselves appear more human and approachable.
Law 47: Don’t Push Too Far in Victory
When we’re winning, know when to stop. Don’t let success cloud our judgment. If we push too far beyond our original goal, we risk becoming blind to our vulnerabilities. Plan our moves carefully, and once we’ve achieved our goal, take a moment to consolidate our success before moving forward.
Law 48: Be Formless
Our enemy can’t attack what they can’t see. Train ourselves not to reveal our emotions or intentions. Avoid sticking to a rigid strategy or style, and don’t follow conventional advice. Instead, learn to adapt quickly and move in unpredictable ways, so our opponents never know what to expect. This will give us the upper hand, as they won’t have time to react effectively to our moves.
So, what about quality in the book? If we want to improve any process, optimize, implement a strategy, or simply create something new, we must always pitch our ideas and work with people if we want to succeed in getting results.
As Robert says in the book, you can naively think power is not about you and suffer from office politics, government bureaucracy, or you can understand these rules and use them to move forward. There is no more painful experience than finding out that your results were damaged by your own ignorance and indifference in the first place.